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Being MOTIVATED to live a healthy lifestyle and feel ageless!

Week 3 Emotional Intelligence: Motivation  Being MOTIVATED to live a healthy lifestyle and feel ageless! Quote: L.I.F.E. is to be lived do not allow your age to stop your MOTIVATION to live. Loosen up! -LWB Butterfly  🦋   “Laughter is timeless, imagination has no age and dreams are forever.” ~ Walt Disney When people were younger celebrating their birthday was fun and liberating. It was not a dreadful reminder that your were getting older.    Actually, it's reversed, you we're looking forward to it.    The number of candles on the cake was not a factor of age when we were younger, instead it was the joy of blowing them out and celebrating life.    Yes, as we age situation in our life may change, but we need to be motivated to walk in those changes with confidence.    Do not allow any health or other struggles to strip you from enjoying yourself at any age. Remember age is a sign of experience, therefore we need to ...

Motivation: Being lifted up from Abandonment: It is your time!

July Theme: Motivation: Being lifted up from Abandonment: It is your time!  Being open to be transparent and being MOTIVATED to walk in your truth! Be MOTIVATED to be sure about YOU! No delays here! -LWB Butterfly  🦋   Sharing all of your flaws with a person could cause you to feel vulnerable if you allow it to. However, you can be transparent and be motivated enough to walk in your truths no matter what others may think of me.    This may be easy to say for some and hard to do for others.    Being transparent causes us to invite a level of trust with someone by discovering the reality of not being shame nor embarrassed by who and what you are.    It causes a person not to feel like they have to hide their desires and interests. Transparency allows a person to be honest and establishes a credible lens from others towards you. The thought of  being so open may be nervous and uncomfortable at first, but like anything we exper...

Being lifted up from Abandonment: It is your time!

Motivation: Being lifted up from Abandonment: It is your time!  Don’t restrict yourself, be willing to face the challenges! You will be surprised how motivated you really can be! -LWB Butterfly  🦋 . Be careful not to push yourself away from what motivated you in the first place! -LWB Butterfly  🦋 . In life we have been programmed to think a certain way, act a certain way, and look a certain way. Well, it is time for you to motivate yourself, and be who you want to be, look the way you want to look, act the way you want to act, and do what you pleases you.  Setting yourself free from abandonment will cause you to walk into a new direction that allows you to feel good about who you are and what you want.  Bring a motivated person can look differently to someone else.  I have seen how people changes were based on their circumstances or others close to them. We can find ourselves following someone who has a certain type of philosophy until som...

Graduating into a New Zone: Dealing with Abandonment & Not being Good Enough!

Graduating into a New Zone: Dealing with Abandonment & Not being good enough! Are you waiting for someone else to tell you that you are good enough? If so, you have not realized your own worth! It’s time for you to stir up your Solar Plexus energy! -LWB Butterfly  🦋 .  I may not understand your intentions for me, and I don't need to! I do understand my intentions for myself, and that's good enough for me”. -LWB Butterfly  🦋 . Who are we trying to be good enough for?    No one understands you like you. If you are waiting for someone to guide you into your truths, that means you are still searching from within. You have to learn how to identify the real you, and not be ashamed of it, nor be insecure about it. You have to learn how to own yourself and have the self power (Solar Plexus Chakra) to endure others opinions of you.    It is time for you to be confident and good enough with yourself?    Why do we look to others so ...

GRADUATING (PART 2)-Trouble With Trust

Graduating into a New Zone:  Dealing with Abandonment  Trouble With Trust! Quote: Cherish all, Trust a few, and Mislead no one. -LWB Butterfly  🦋   It’s okay to mistrust when someone has revealed themselves, but we should not be that way with everything/everyone. Remember our future is unknown and we should  trust  that.        -LWB Butterfly  🦋   “Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always, one more time” Maya Angelou When a mirror breaks, it has a lot of pieces and you can still see yourself. However, you must realize that the wholeness is now broken into pieces. Trust is the same. You can still give a person all your trust until they break the vibe. Then you have to walk with caution, because you may get cut! When someone has hurt someone else, the trust is the first thing that will vanish. It’s causes a person to have to build that trust again and this is where fears lurks. The hurt...

GRADUATING (PART 1)-Dealing with Insecurity: Abandonment

Graduating into a New Zone!  Dealing with Insecurity: Abandonment  Being insecure because of abandonment means that it’s time to align your  Solar Plexus ! -LWB Butterfly  🦋   Become aware of your  Vishaddha  Chakra.  If you have ever been in a relationship from any standpoint, there’s a possibility that you have dealt with abandonment. It is a common, yet undesirable, experience that we may go through on this universe. Abandonment has sabotaged a lot of relationships, and each individuals'  insecurity may elevate the situation.  Insecurity can interfere with how we communicate (or lack thereof) because of our discomfort regarding who we are speaking to.    The key is learning to balance out our  Solar Plexus  chakra to start our healing process. It helps us to grow our power, will, and self love in order to deal with any type of insecurity.  Abandonment causes a lot of triggers wit...

Dealing with Abandonment & turning it around for your good!

Quote: Abandonment does not feel good in the beginning, but give it time and you will see it was the best elimination that you did not ask for!     -LWB Butterfly  🦋   Graduating into a New Zone: Dealing with Abandonment & turning it around for your good! Quote: You left me thinking that was the best thing for you, but really it was the best thing for me! -LWB Butterfly  🦋   Abandonment is labeled as such a taboo type of action, because it does represent giving up, discontinuing, and withdrawing from someone or something. If we are not careful, we will fall into self pity or a “woe is me” mentality. When a person chooses to leave you, they have tapped themselves out of that situation, and it has nothing to do with you. I had to discover that for myself. I had to realize that just because I was abandoned by the person I loved, did not mean I was supposed to abandon myself as well. I had to learn how to graduate from that situ...