LWB BUTTERFLY

Graduating into a New Zone: Dealing with Abandonment & Not being good enough! Are you waiting for someone else to tell you that you are good enough? If so, you have not realized your own worth! It’s time for you to stir up your Solar Plexus energy! -LWB Butterfly  🦋 .  I may not understand your intentions for me, and I don't need to! I do understand my intentions for myself, and that's good enough for me”. -LWB Butterfly  🦋 . Who are we trying to be good enough for?    No one understands you like you. If you are waiting for someone to guide you into your truths, that means you are still searching from within. You have to learn how to identify the real you, and not be ashamed of it, nor be insecure about it. You have to learn how to own yourself and have the self power (Solar Plexus Chakra) to endure others opinions of you.    It is time for you to be confident and good enough with yourself?    Why do we look to others so ...

Graduating into a New Zone:  Dealing with Abandonment  Trouble With Trust! Quote: Cherish all, Trust a few, and Mislead no one. -LWB Butterfly  🦋   It’s okay to mistrust when someone has revealed themselves, but we should not be that way with everything/everyone. Remember our future is unknown and we should  trust  that.        -LWB Butterfly  🦋   “Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always, one more time” Maya Angelou When a mirror breaks, it has a lot of pieces and you can still see yourself. However, you must realize that the wholeness is now broken into pieces. Trust is the same. You can still give a person all your trust until they break the vibe. Then you have to walk with caution, because you may get cut! When someone has hurt someone else, the trust is the first thing that will vanish. It’s causes a person to have to build that trust again and this is where fears lurks. The hurt...

Graduating into a New Zone!  Dealing with Insecurity: Abandonment  Being insecure because of abandonment means that it’s time to align your  Solar Plexus ! -LWB Butterfly  🦋   Become aware of your  Vishaddha  Chakra.  If you have ever been in a relationship from any standpoint, there’s a possibility that you have dealt with abandonment. It is a common, yet undesirable, experience that we may go through on this universe. Abandonment has sabotaged a lot of relationships, and each individuals'  insecurity may elevate the situation.  Insecurity can interfere with how we communicate (or lack thereof) because of our discomfort regarding who we are speaking to.    The key is learning to balance out our  Solar Plexus  chakra to start our healing process. It helps us to grow our power, will, and self love in order to deal with any type of insecurity.  Abandonment causes a lot of triggers wit...

Quote: Abandonment does not feel good in the beginning, but give it time and you will see it was the best elimination that you did not ask for!     -LWB Butterfly  🦋   Graduating into a New Zone: Dealing with Abandonment & turning it around for your good! Quote: You left me thinking that was the best thing for you, but really it was the best thing for me! -LWB Butterfly  🦋   Abandonment is labeled as such a taboo type of action, because it does represent giving up, discontinuing, and withdrawing from someone or something. If we are not careful, we will fall into self pity or a “woe is me” mentality. When a person chooses to leave you, they have tapped themselves out of that situation, and it has nothing to do with you. I had to discover that for myself. I had to realize that just because I was abandoned by the person I loved, did not mean I was supposed to abandon myself as well. I had to learn how to graduate from that situ...

Bloom into Life Unapologetically: Doing Me: Break-free from what others think! Why try to be someone else? Express your words freely, those who do not have a problem with them know your intentions, and those who do have a problem, you know their intentions. -LWB Butterfly 🦋 I remember when I first started doing me . People were treating me like I was doing something wrong. To be honest, I thought I was doing something wrong by standing up for myself. I thought I had to make others feel better than I was making myself feel. I learned this at such a young age, because I was brought up to please others and that caused me to overlook myself. I remember being in high school and I would often receive allowances from my parents. My first thoughts were to give them away, which would leave me with nothing. Now, don’t get me wrong, giving to others is a wonderful feeling and a great thing to do, but often, the people we give to are people who do not know how to give back to u...

Blossom into your Life Unapologetically  Quote: Don’t be sorry for being you!  ©️ 2019 LWB Butterfly  🦋   Living unapologetically does not mean that you are  heartless. Goodness still has a place inside of you. It just allows you to build yourself up in a way that springs forth newness. (Your new perspective could inspire other people to do so as well). Living unapologetically will cause you to look (and feel) better and bolder. It teaches you not to be sorry for being who you are and/or for desiring what you want. Living unapologetically does not mean crushing all things kind and good. Do not be sorry for being who you are.There is a voice inside of us (at times) that tells us to take the blame in situations (even if we were not the cause). I have learned how to make it my priority to live unapologetically, and to understand who I am. As long as my intentions toward others are wholesome when interacting with them, then I'm fine (and I won't regret my ...

Mental Health Breakthrough : It’s not a taboo! Spring into Fresh Energy Health Week Quote: Don’t regret, nor be ashamed of your story! Someone else needs to hear it and to know that they are not alone! -LWB Butterfly. The developmental stages in our childhood life may pave the way for Mental Health Illness (if not acknowledged and resolved). The first medicine to prescribe is LOVE... -LWB Butterfly The cause of Mental Health is not diagnosed nor generated only by a chemical imbalance. It can also be triggered by the emotional trauma from a person's childhood that is never addressed. The traumatic childhood events in a person’s life can cause many factors. Let’s release together so that we can live our best life. As people we have a way to suppress our Emotional Intelligence because some of us were taught not to deal with them (especially males).This type of emotional disconnect causes a person not to be able to handle them and then they discover the pressure...