Meet your Match 20/20

January 2020
Met your Match 20/20

Equal Abilities/ Complement, not Competition. ~LWB Butterfly 🦋 

For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. ~Isaac Newton

When it comes to Meeting your Match, one may think I am only referring to the life element of relationships. Really that is not the reason I selected this topic to blog this month. Meeting your match is for any of the life elements that you feel is best for you. As we enter into this new year, so many things crossed my mind such as: How will I physically take care of myself, What financial goals will I set, Who will be my soulmate, What do I need to do to get closer to God, and Am I in my right career? All this means is that I am willing to be in a situation that shows me that I desire to match myself up with the qualities in which I am desiring for myself.  In life, we want someone or something that is just as good or better as we are. 

This year my goals are to align myself up with every element in my life that I am meeting my match with.  I am not in competition with anyone or thing because I am  not fighting against it.  I am simply facing my situation with the confidence to know that I am doing things to master my goals in life.  Most times when you find your match in life, it is when you least expect it. For example, when you are looking to be in a relationship, you want someone who you have chemistry with not just sexual, but you want to have an intellectual connection with as well.  You find the one who matches you and your energy.  In life, we want to be cultivated by what we are desiring and we never really know when it will happen. Remember Newton’s law (Newton's three laws of motion may be stated as follows: Every object in a state of uniform motion will remain in that state of motion unless an external force acts on it. Force equals mass times acceleration. For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction). Well, the action is YOU. This law connects with every element we face in L.I.F.E.

I have some signs to help you as you are considering meeting your match.

  1. Your intentions mean well.
  2. Being flexible/ understanding that halfway is a sign of trying 
  3. Morally compatible
  4. Similarities with your ideas and desires
  5. You are comfortable with decisions about the situation 
  6. You feel like something/someone is missing from your life
  7. Remembering the Newton’s Law

This is a journey towards finding what is your match regardless of the element you are seeking after.  It is not an easy task, so don’t rush it.  Be patient and realize you are not on a time schedule.  Again, it will happen when you least expect it.  Don’t worry or be anxious, just know that you are seeking after what is best for you. This process is not about what is quick and easy for you, instead it is about making sure you are not settling for what you do not wants in life.   You want to make sure you have the right fit for what you are desiring. Then eventually you will realize that you can not imagine life any differently.  

Kindly,
Lisa

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