LWB BUTTERFLY

Genuine or Judgmental? Spirituality: Genuine or Judgmental?  Can your genuine thoughts and deeds appear judgmental? Being genuine can put you in your own head-space and may cause you to be judgmental toward others' genuineness (simultaneously). My real may cause me to think the outsider (the other person) is being fake. Sometimes, our personal preferences can cause judgment to appear, because we all handle things differently. I was in a situation once with a close relative, and their actions caused my intentions to appear judgmental toward them. My genuineness was to help bring a stronger awareness in a position that they were in. Unfortunately, it did not appear that way, and judgment overpowered the true intent because the person became  uncomfortable and insecure in their personal standing. Instead of the situation appearing helpful to them, it made a drastic turn that lead to a very uncompromising situation. The person felt I was being judgmental to what they w...

Stand Out And Be Different! Career Choice : MARCH into your new IDENTITY. Stand out and be Different!  Stepping out of your comfort zone with your career can sometimes feel intimidating. I remember when I had to do this. I was in a comfortable work environment for over 16 years, working a job that I knew inside-out. One day, I had to make a decision that caused me to stand out and be different from my standard way of living. The choice caused me to make a huge change in my life. I had to literally learn a whole new world: Education. I knew nothing about being a teacher (other than having a desire to be one when I was a little girl). In order for my desire to be a reality, I had to further my education and enter into a Master's program at a prestigious university. My creator reminded me of my true desire and in order for that to happen, I had to go through a new process.  The job  I had was a blessing, but not a passion. I was spending large parts of my life...

Fiances and your EGO! MARCH into your new IDENTITY in peace regarding your Finances!  Are you E rasing G od's O rder because of EGO ?  Finance is understood in several ways such as: borrowing, lending, exchanging, budgeting, saving, and investing. These are the ways in which we use the term finance as it relates to money. The transactions are used based on our positions and needs. We all use our resources differently and have different mindsets about the above categories. Throughout the week, think about how you analyze your money and God’s principals for them, along with how you really apply the “sowing and reaping” concept when it comes to your finances. As humans, we have the power to make decisions for what we feel is best for us. However, we have a higher power and Being that can help us to Plan, Execute, and Journey through life with the understanding of not E rasing G od’s O rder because of our EGO . Ego can reference the way one carries themselves, possibly b...

Feeling Threatened! Why do we feel threatened by being similar to other people? We are threatened by differences because we may discover we are all really the same. We look for relationships with other people when, in reality, we should be looking within for the ultimate one, which is YOU! I think about this question often and want to make sure that I am not that person. But to be transparent, I think we all have had this thought process before. When we feel threatened, it becomes the energy of a mindset that generates a uncomfortable intensity. It causes a person to trigger in a way that shows a hostile reaction against someone that was done. The offended is ready to “strike". Our brain is designed to help us to protect ourselves, and we express ourselves through emotion and our verbiage. This level of susceptibility is a sensitive zone for most people, and can cause a person to feel threatened when they feel as though they have been treated wrongly by someone or by...